RELATIONSHIP 101
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Everyone wants a serious relationship or wants to get married.
Just before you take a life long decision lets call what am about to say "Three most important qualities in a partner''
1. Is your partner Godfearing? When i mean Godfearing does he or she pray with you? When you have issues are you comfortable calling your partner to talk to, cause you know he or she has spiritual words to remind you that all is well, mum will say a woman is the key keeper of a house there's is nothing greater than a praying wife cause she makes or destroys the house with the actions and words that come out of her. Don't get me wrong, a man can be the prayer pillar as well who can groom the wife into being prayerful cause my dear in marriage there are trials and tribulations, and what makes one to overcome it peacefully is prayers and spiritual bond.
2. Does he or she have family values? For example if your mother is a witch, will your partner go out there and be telling the world my husband or wife mother is a witch? will he/she disrespect your parents or compete with them over you? Dont get me wrong it doesn't mean you shouldn't stand up for your partner when the time comes for that, but do it in a respectful manner.
3. Respect: does he or she respect you? Will he/she embarrass you outside for example you out eating and you mistakenly pour a drink on yourself, will your partner scream at you and say "can't you see?" or will he/she be nice and clean you up. Do you guys have facial expressions that are understood by just both of you. If you can answer these three(3) questions about the partner you are with, then you can accept his or her proposal to marry him/her.... xoxo
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Thanks for sharing Reggy!
ReplyDeleteGo girl.... thumbs up(tammy)
ReplyDeleteSuper Insightful!!
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nice one gurl
ReplyDeleteThanks for the info
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ReplyDeleteWow...so inspiring...
ReplyDeleteInsight discovery girl... You're on point.
ReplyDeleteInsight discovery girl... You're on point.
ReplyDeleteThat's a nice piece Reg.Tge truth is that there is no straight or defined laid down standards for accepting a marital proposal. The basic is obvious, the fear of God by both parties, and also the most important since it sets the background for tolerance and forgiveness. Love only can't keep 2 people together. The man must not be a perfect gentleman nor even any near 10% gentle. The heart speaks volume and their is different vibe for different personality. You may wonder why the oddest couples make the best of marriage and their lives together.
ReplyDelete'Nuf said...
You are right on point @Joey Zaza. But i beg to differ that "Love only can't keep 2 together". I believe when we talk about love we mean the scriptural kind of love as seen in 1st Corinthians chapter 13, from verse 1 to 7. Remember God is love. So, if God is love then love is God. And if God never fails then love never fails. If this is true, then love is enough to keep two together.
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And again Reg...great work.. Keep it up
ReplyDeleteLove,respect,compromise & trust
ReplyDeleteReally insightful!!...I like it
ReplyDeleteLovely post
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