THINGS YOU SHOULD AVOID FIGHTING OVER
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- FRIENDS OR FAMILY: Anything concerning friends and family that haven’t acted reasonably should be avoided unless you have a strong back up to stand the fight, so avoid argument just because you dislike your partners best friend, siblings or mum unless you can back it up.
- DIFFERENCE IN CHARACTER AND WANTS: Opposite attracts, maybe your partner is the outgoing type and always have to be in one party or the other and you are an introvert, the one who wants to stay at home and see a movie or study. you can compromise and do things together, who knows you might even learn to like new things. the most important thing is to know that you are not literarily attach to each other unless you are siamese twin and remember that personalities are never going to change. Unavoidable truth about each other needs accepting not constant criticism.
- WHAT YOU TOLD THE PERSON TO DO THAT WASN’T DONE: Does your partner claim they ask you to help fix the shelve, and you claim you weren’t aware or a new movie is out and you told them, but they claim to be in the dark. Don’t even bother getting started on this, one person forgot, is either you forgot you were told, or the other forgot to do the telling, it doesn’t really matter for communication is imperfect so are our brains as well, there is no point wasting resources on a fight, just let it go before it resolves into a fight where one has to measure up brains.
- NOT WANTING TO GO SOMEWHERE: If you want to tag along with friends or colleague for a drink or got an office party and your partner doesn’t want to go, it is ok. This is not the end of the world. It might not be what you both want, and it doesn’t need to turn into a thing, but the occasional not wanting to go anywhere is nothing to fight about.
- HOBBIES: Let people have their hobby no matter how weird it is, just same way you never understand why people like telemondo or football, if it makes them happy, then it isn’t something to make fun of, let people have their hobbies.
- THINGS THAT HAPPENED BEFORE YOU MET: You can’t get mad at someone for knowing a certain person, or for sleeping with a certain person you think is awful, before you even met them. You can’t get that held against you, if your past ever comes up just hush it and say these are the things that shapes us and makes us better people and probably brought us together as well.
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Nice one, the one that marvels me is the fact some people even fight over hypothetical scenarios... lmao
ReplyDeleteNot wanting to go anywhere when you want your partner to go with you and later found out that she was hanging out dat same day with some other guy?what do you think
ReplyDeleteNow for such an instance, then there is something definitely wrong somewhere, first you need to find out why she didn't tell you about that outing? who the person is and why she really insisted on not going out with you but then sometime this is a forgivable act. In a case whereby you really want to go further with that then i believe you give she benefit of doubt but watch from a distance cause that could be a sign of cheating as well... xoxo
DeleteAwesome!
ReplyDeleteSo insightful ..
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