Over time, I have come across these topic flooding the social media and as a topic amongst my friends, so I decided to pen my start over plan and the few questions that lingered on in my head
When is it right to start again?
Is it worth it?
In my room I sat and thought to myself I don't know where I am?
How did I get here?

Starting over is a present continuous tense and in Cambridge dictionary it says that it is doing something over again and sometimes in a different way.  Oxford dictionary says make a new beginning.
Starting over should be killing of old flame, being in total control of how you feel, it should not be a medium to get over a bad or an understanding breakup. As a person you should not rush out and into another relationship cause you might be hurting yourself and the person you are going into a relationship with next except he or she was a side piece*chuckles hehehe yoruba demon slang*

A relationship should be more than just two people coming together due to affections built by physical, gift or even communication attraction, it should be two grown people(no past pain lingering) coming together to understand each other .
Take a break, think, retrospect your flaws in the previous relationships, map out solutions to work on them, set a reminder, pray about them asking for discipline and guidance.

Is it worth it? Yes,
Do not shut yourself out after a breakup, it shows weakness as much as it also tells that you have given up. Take a look at yourself in the mirror, dress up, for the ladies, put on a stiletto, a red sole if you have one and flip that curly or straight hair, go on dates, see a movie with friends, go to beach.

For the men, cut the bushy hair, trim the edges, groom the beards*beardgang* put on that lovely shirt with a nice pair of pant and a lovely shoes or slippers to go with a neatly cut nails and a nice perfume, message that young lady friend and take her out on a date or better still go game watching with the guys, skydiving or even partying again. These will help heal you faster.

Call up old friends, discuss, Make new friends it doesn't hurt, what am I trying to say;
starting over is not easy but it is a ground for perfection. I call it my golden opportunity and of course we all know how prepared we get when given our dream job call, plane ticket to our vacation spot or even best activity.

                                                       START AGAIN,IT IS WORTH IT....xoxo